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December
30, 2003
Intestinal
Certitude: Heeding Your Inner Expert
By Laura Sessions Stepp
Washington Post Staff Writer
Tuesday, December 30, 2003; Page C10
Trust your gut. We've heard it a thousand times.
But
can we really? Should we pay attention to that feeling in our stomach,
or that compelling inner voice, as we consider whether to proceed
with surgery, accept the company buyout, or believe our dour daughter
when she says, "Nothing's wrong"?
People
such as Linda Rose say we should. Rose, a clinical hypnotherapist
in Bethesda, is a proponent of intuition, or knowing something immediately
without thinking about it. First instinct is not the only tool at
our disposal, she says, but it certainly is an important one.
"What you think, feel and know are all parts of a decision-making
team," Rose says. "When making a choice, why not use a
full deck?"
Some
business executives are legendary for using their intuition successfully.
Robert Lutz, GM vice-president of product development, built the
macho Dodge Viper sports car on a hunch while at Chrysler Corp.,
changing that automaker's old-fogy image and breathing new life
into the company. Sony Corp. co-founder Masaru Ibuka, asked about
his commercial success, said he drank herbal tea before deciding
any major business deal. If he got an upset stomach after drinking
the tea, he didn't do the deal.
Howard
Dean's current presidential campaign has raised millions of dollars
by encouraging supporters to act on their instincts without requiring
approval from senior staff.
Today,
a growing industry of people calling themselves intuitive coaches
teach people to trust their intuition and how to use it. Rose, recently
hired by two high-level government agencies and a major D.C. area
hospital, is one of them. Caela Farren, president of a McLean-based
career development firm called MasteryWorks, also teaches intuitive
strategies in her management training seminars.
Instincts
help managers recruit and develop employees, according to Farren.
"Say a manager has a feeling about somebody. We help him or
her find the words to describe that feeling. What is it about the
potential employee that seems extraordinary? What has been a current
worker's major contribution to the company? The gut is the lead.
Then the mind and the conversations that follow open up what that
instinct is all about," she says.
"When I go against my gut, I'm always wrong," Farren admits.
Our
instincts evolved a long time ago to keep the species vigilant and
safe. The biological process is essentially the same today as it
was then: When the brain takes in or produces information, amino
acid compounds called peptides are produced in the cells of the
stomach as elsewhere, suggesting action.
So
why do people pay consultants to remind them to do what their ancestors
used to do without thinking?
Partly
because other people whom we consult -- schoolteachers, psychologists,
psychiatrists, senior fellows, talk show hosts and journalists who
make it their business to tell us our business -- say we should
trust facts over feelings. As Farren observes, there are "so
many people speaking and so many hundreds of channels, you can get
lost if you don't get in tune with yourself."
Convinced
that we don't know enough, we return to the experts again and again
for more facts. We are inheritors of a Western process that took
shape in the Age of Reason and has been bemoaned ever since by geniuses
such as Albert Einstein, who said, "The intuitive mind is a
sacred gift and the rational mind a faithful servant. We have created
a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift."
Of
course the gift might never reach us without the servant. In order
for our bodily reaction to be of value, we need to define what we're
feeling, says Jennifer Lerner, assistant professor of social and
decision sciences at Carnegie Mellon University. Is it delight?
Fear? Anger? Where does it come from? From an experience two weeks,
two years or two decades ago that resembled the one we're facing
now?
Say
a teenager is arguing to extend his curfew past midnight, and our
gut tells us to say no. Is that because we got angry the last time
he broke curfew, or because we had a midnight curfew when we were
his age and resented it?
"I
can't begin to tell you how much emotional carryover there is"
in decision-making, Lerner says.
It
helps to talk over our gut feelings with another person, according
to Lerner. He may tell us we need more facts before we can make
a decision, or that we're not the person to make the decision.
Our
instincts may tell us the same things, if we practice using them.
Joe
Simone, president of the International Spirit of Life Foundation,
a cancer organization, says his training with Linda Rose taught
him that his subordinates, not he, should hire for certain positions.
It also assisted him through medical treatment for two cancers.
Our
gut helps us come to grips with what we are able and not able to
do," he says.
The
impact of feelings on decision-making has only been researched seriously
in the last decade, Lerner says. Some of that work suggests that
we should rely entirely on our gut for hedonistic preferences, such
as what kind of jelly we prefer. When subjects are pressed to explain
why they like certain things, they end up not liking those things
as much as they did initially, according to Lerner. Too much thinking
can spoil the taste of blueberry jam.
Too
much thinking also can result in second-guessing our favorite golf
swing, sending the ball into the trees. But too little thinking
can result in sending an innocent man to jail. Balancing knowing
and thinking, feeling and fact, takes practice.
No
matter how we make choices, Lerner says, we shouldn't assume we
know how we'll feel once our decisions come to pass. People are
really bad at predicting future emotions. Generally, the outcome
is neither as wonderful nor as horrible as they expected.
If
they pay attention, their gut will tell them that.
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